Oh and that He Say, She Say mess ending like I figured it would. Well hoped it would. The wife made a mountain out of a mole hill to get under my boss' skin to get revenge on him. My co-worker also wasn't shocked that we talked to him about it. Just really annoying that it really could have been avoided if he had told me and my boss one little fact. Yeah great.
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Showing posts with label Mess. Show all posts
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Yep...just letting time run out
Yeah just going to let my 90 days run out at my 2nd job. It really is just not a good job for me. There is too much on the job training and not enough people to really try to train you. Ugh just not worth it for getting paid minimum wage. Plus I'm working 10 hours a week basically. Well 8-10. So not worth it. Plus clearly they don't listen to me. I told my manager I can't work on weekdays before 6 and of course I have to work at 3 on Monday. Not just at 3, but 3-10. That's 7 hours.
Oh and that He Say, She Say mess ending like I figured it would. Well hoped it would. The wife made a mountain out of a mole hill to get under my boss' skin to get revenge on him. My co-worker also wasn't shocked that we talked to him about it. Just really annoying that it really could have been avoided if he had told me and my boss one little fact. Yeah great.

Today's tip is anything you say can and will be used against you. Especially if you are talking to a smartass.
Oh and that He Say, She Say mess ending like I figured it would. Well hoped it would. The wife made a mountain out of a mole hill to get under my boss' skin to get revenge on him. My co-worker also wasn't shocked that we talked to him about it. Just really annoying that it really could have been avoided if he had told me and my boss one little fact. Yeah great.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Still thinking about it
I'm still thinking about the He Say, She Say mess. Mainly because tomorrow is the day I confront it. I'm just nervous about the outcome. I'm most likely making way too much out of it. The worse thing that could happen is we lose this guy as an employee. I'd like to hope that my honesty will be a great thing. Just hope things aren't awkward between us. Supposedly he has something to tell my boss about me and customers. What it could basically be is his buddies just don't like me. They still view me as the new guy and what I suggest doesn't mean nearly as much as if it came from him or my boss. It's probably why his Saturday sales are so high. So I just have to wait to see what's up. It really could be that his wife made a mountain out of a mole hill to try to hurt my boss because she was mad at him. Won't know until tomorrow.
Plus I have to work again tomorrow. 4 hours there really seems to go super slow. Probably because I really don't know what to do. It's a job with so many things I have to do. Really feels like 95% of the time I'm just randomly walking around waiting for something to do. I just hate not really having my job written out for me. That's the job I have now. I know I'm suppose to order things, and label things, and help customers. I was shown all that stuff. With this new job they show me everything and I'm expected to remember it all.
As for the gym it was another eye opener. The gym manager again was training the woman he was training on Tuesday. This time they actually worked out instead of talking. My workout buddy pointed out that he was working her out like a guy. Yeah he really has been. What shocks me is if you look at all the trainers including the manager you have to think that you would find a better trainer for a woman. Like the woman trainer. I mean two look like they are all about bulking up and the other two look like toning. Just one of those things I notice. Plus what the hell is it with trainers and not wiping machines and benches after their client is finished with it. That's just gross.

this video made me truly laugh out loud. It's an interview with a couple about sex. Just watch it. And trust me it doesn't end the way you'd think it would. Today's tip is you can't change people anymore then you could force a turtle to change shells. You can poke them with a stick until they flip over though.
Plus I have to work again tomorrow. 4 hours there really seems to go super slow. Probably because I really don't know what to do. It's a job with so many things I have to do. Really feels like 95% of the time I'm just randomly walking around waiting for something to do. I just hate not really having my job written out for me. That's the job I have now. I know I'm suppose to order things, and label things, and help customers. I was shown all that stuff. With this new job they show me everything and I'm expected to remember it all.
As for the gym it was another eye opener. The gym manager again was training the woman he was training on Tuesday. This time they actually worked out instead of talking. My workout buddy pointed out that he was working her out like a guy. Yeah he really has been. What shocks me is if you look at all the trainers including the manager you have to think that you would find a better trainer for a woman. Like the woman trainer. I mean two look like they are all about bulking up and the other two look like toning. Just one of those things I notice. Plus what the hell is it with trainers and not wiping machines and benches after their client is finished with it. That's just gross.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
He Say She Say Mess
That's what I had to deal with yesterday. What I mean by that is I heard that a customer was mad at me, not from him or his friend, but from my boss who heard it from the wife of my co-worker who works out with this guy. The situation happened a long time ago. The fact that it is coming out now is not through any fault of my own. My co-worker's wife was mad at my boss so she brings this up to dig at him through me. Now I'll admit it bothered me that she would do that. Why attack me? The funny thing is just a few days ago a customer came in and said I went the extra mile for her and she's so glad she stopped in. I've had guys ask for me and ask what I'd recommend. So my boss and I agreed to talk to my co-worker to see what's up. All we really know is that she said what she did out of no where and she was upset. Instead of speculating and assuming what is behind this we are just going to confront it. We work together. There are three of us. We need to be working together not be divided. The plus side is that I could get my emotions out by tweeting it, e-mailing a friend, and texting a friend. I truly believe that once you get the emotion out of the way you can think of things logically and confront it as such.
Now as for the phrase He say, She say Mess I wish I could take credit for it. No it was a phrase I took from Judge Hatchett. She says that whenever a fight happens because of something that someone else said about someone else. That's exactly what happened. This could have been a big mess. I could have got mad at my co-worker and chewed him out. My boss could have chewed me out because of what she said. It could have truly been a big mess and had a lot of hurt feelings. People really underestimate the power of words. They can be a great thing to help someone or really hurt someone and their reputation.

Alright so today's video is Yu-Gi-Oh abridged. This one is the first episode for the season 0 abridged series. It's kinda interesting. So I figured I'd post it. If you've ever read the Yu-Gi-Oh manga you'll probably get more of a laugh out of this then if you just saw the anime. Enjoy. Today's tip is words have power. They can comfort friends or make their life a living hell. Be careful of what you say and why you said it.
Now as for the phrase He say, She say Mess I wish I could take credit for it. No it was a phrase I took from Judge Hatchett. She says that whenever a fight happens because of something that someone else said about someone else. That's exactly what happened. This could have been a big mess. I could have got mad at my co-worker and chewed him out. My boss could have chewed me out because of what she said. It could have truly been a big mess and had a lot of hurt feelings. People really underestimate the power of words. They can be a great thing to help someone or really hurt someone and their reputation.
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